Our relational and sexual issues are often what makes us the most vulnerable and susceptible to not coping with the challenges of everyday life; regaining the balance in ourselves is the best way to reach a deeper connection and freedom to ignite our Erotic Fire.
We offer a fast track path to jumpstart lifestyle changes while being supported and inspired by; Top practitioners, state of the art facilities, delicious cuisine and creative experiences to cater to all tastes and budgets,
Why Do You Recommend it?
Financial Sense - Retreats and Experiences are more economic than a succession of single sessions and packages, not because they cost less but because they have overall a better financial and therapeutic value.
Professional Expertise - When sessions are experienced in a continuous consecutive and/or open everyday life context it dissolves the separation that is often created in a clinical/private environment between the distinction of ‘inside the therapeutic bubble’ and ‘the outside world’ making it more ‘real’ thus effective process. Read More
Nerdy Science - Accessing long term intimacy and sexual behavioral changes involve creating new ways of being and relating. The entry point for this transformation is through the repetition of actions, thoughts, and habits which leads to the development of new neural networks (aka neuroplasticity). Without this repetition, the experience can be ‘lost’ in short term memory and while a new intimate way of being can be accessed and practiced in a single session it’s likely it will take a long time for the penny to drop. Read More
Time is our most prized commodity. The immersive nature of Retreats maximizes the time that is spent in a therapeutic process while shortening exponentially time that’s needed for you to experience or re-frame your desired outcome.
They are great fun - Who doesn`t like to get away from time to time?
The Journey is a great destination!
How Does It Work?
You are the creator and designer of your experience and the first step is to share your ideal getaway based on - availability, location, duration, preferred retreat style, and budget. If you have something specific in mind, I would love to hear it. Based on your requests my team will curate the best retreat, handpicking every detail to the highest standards and you will receive an all-inclusive quote for your approval.
During our time together, we will co-create the content of the experience with structured day to day practices and long term plans based on your needs and desired outcome. All experiences are focused to support a deeper understanding of your sexual and intimate exploration while designed to be playful, interactive, safe, relaxing and fun. Enough time will be allocated for - hanging around, pillow-talk, hands-on intimacy practice and rest. The time structure is flexible and negotiable - Be it in the Spa, having a walk or in bed, everything will revolve around teachings that support your journey.
If you opt for Surrogate Partner Therapy we will also allocate time for therapy sessions to take place - at the beginning and end of each day.
You are welcome to mix and match between all our services allowing you to create a truly bespoke experience to suit your individual needs.
Is It Right for Me?
Sexual Surrogacy Retreat is for anyone regardless of gender, sexual orientation or relational status and over the age of 21 looking to explore in a safe, non-judgemental container their sexual desires, expansion, pleasure and/or overcome limitations.
Sexual Surrogacy is not psychotherapy, tantra or medical treatment. It is trauma-informed however it is NOT designed as trauma therapy unless accompanied and supported by an experienced trauma therapist.
Partnered retreats offer an opportunity for you to explore and experience an authentic relational and intimate connection with your surrogate and while all experiences are an invitation you might if desired and appropriate, explore all aspects of an intimate relationship.
Please refer to Sexual Surrogacy.
Where in The World?
While Sexual Surrogacy is a genuine therapeutic practice its understanding is still shrouded by myths and misconceptions, therefore, it is not available in many countries around the world.
I am based in the U.K. and most of my work is carried out in London, however, I`m available to work in most countries in Europe, South & Central America, Caribbean & Pacific Islands, North America, New Zeland, and Australia. I also offer my services in South Africa and Israel.
Sessions are in English but I`m also fluent in Portuguese and have a good understanding and communication skills in Spanish and Italian.
*Please note - my availability to travel to your country of choice is subject to visa requirements and approval (when applicable) and safety-related issues. For more information on destinations please contact us
Exploration & Taster Sessions
Exploration Session will give you the opportunity to meet over the phone, enquire about my work and discover how I can best support you in your journey - it is a 30 minutes chat, free of charge or any commitments.
If you feel I’m the right match for you, I highly recommend a taster session to further support your experience of making an informed choice. These sessions are designed as an experiential introduction to the foundation of my work which is based on The Wheel of Consent by Dr. Betty Martin and the basis of the practice and development of bodywork and conscious sexuality.
*Please note I do not offer, kissing, nudity or genital touch during a taster session even if it`s what`s desired.
Prior to our first appointment, you will receive by email an intake form and consent form as well as Terms & Conditions, that need to be completed and returned.
Retreats Vs Ad Hoc Session Programmes
The average hourly rate for Surrogate Partner Therapy sessions in the UK is between £180.00 to £250.00 + VAT (when applicable), in the US is around U$180.00, in the EU between €160.00 and €200.00; excluding the costs of a therapist. While in Israel and the UK under a clinical setting, the daily rate is equivalent to U$2000.00, inclusive of therapy sessions (ratio of 1 therapy session per surrogacy session).
The number of sessions required for you to access your desired outcome is as unique and individual as you are, in the UK clients on average have between 10 to 15 full-day sessions (6hrs) or 15 to 25 half-day sessions (3hrs) and a very ample margin on the give or take scale. Also on average, a client will have one surrogacy session per month, sometimes two but rarely three or more. The full costs is almost prohibitive to most.
In the UK a full program based on 10 sessions once a month (equivalent to 60hrs), charged at £180.00 p/h, plus VAT (when applicable) would take on average one year and set you back £12,960.00 plus your therapy, travel and time off work costs. Not to mention that in a clinical environment time spent with your surrogate is limited to approx. 4hrs/5hrs and confined inside a specific venue - Not sexy!
By comparison, as featured below, a 5-day retreat in a luxurious 5* All-inclusive Resort in the stunning Island of Rhodes would set you back £7460.00 including - Flights from London, UK, Accommodation (x2 separate suites), all meals and drinks, approx.12hrs a day of time with your surrogate (equivalent to 60hrs) plus x2 therapy sessions a day in a stunning organic environment. Now, that`s sexy!
*Travel insurance, Visas (when applicable), Local Taxes and airport transfers are not included. Inbound flights to the UK for those based overseas are also not included.
The retreat rates feature below are subject to availability at the time of booking and are not inclusive of therapeutic fees. Daily Therapeutic Fee is £1200.00 inclusive of surrogate partner rates, therapist rates, and VAT.
Below are a few options to tantalize your imagination and awaken your senses. Sexual and Intimacy therapeutic experiences at its BEST!
2 Nights @ 5* Mystery Hotel in Budapest a UNESCO world heritage. Inclusive of Flights from London, Breakfast, and SPA.
3 NIghts @ a Chic 4* Boutique in the heart of Barcelona.
B&B with Flights from London
4 Nights @ 4* Hotel, in Marrakech - with spectacular views of Atlas Mountains.
All-Inclusive with flights from London.
5 Nights Adults only @ 5* Resort. In the stunning island of Rhodes.
All-Inclusive with flights from London.
7 Nights @ 2 Resorts, 4* Beach Resort and 4* Jungle Resort in Bali. Inclusive of Flights, Half-Board, SPA and transfer.
7 Nights @ 4* BnB, Hotel in Havana & 5* All-Inclusive Resort in Varadero. In the Inclusive of flights from London.